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LILIANA GONZALEZ
Lifebook Online

The most immediate change I was able to make was being honest about my love relationship.

El cambio más inmediato que pude realizar fue el sincerar mi relación amorosa.

Quick summary

After discovering she had been living to please others rather than herself, Liliana made a life-changing decision to end her 22-year marriage. Now she's building new habits and working toward becoming her best self while supporting her family.

Translated from Spanish by AI. LILIANA wrote this story in Spanish.

My experiences after taking this workshop and understanding that the person I love most in the world is ME. Without it sounding egocentric, with all this information I discovered that I wasn't important in my own life and that I only lived to please everyone around me regardless of what I could feel. This was a discovery for me that generated very important changes in my life and where now I want it to be in all the areas where I can generate my happiness and well-being. The most immediate change I was able to make was being honest about my love relationship., Category 6, my love life, affected me emotionally because I discovered that everything I wanted from my partner and from my relationship, none of it resembled what I had, and that made me reflect so much that I decided to separate from my husband, we had been married 22 years but it was a relationship that didn't give either of us anything, and even less to our 2 children, that would make them grow stronger and grow as human beings.. It isn't easy and it hasn't been easy, that decision after so much time and facing so many taboos from the people around me, but today I tell you that this is worth analysing and discovering what we really want to be. With these discoveries in each area of my life, I have incorporated habits that make me feel good, like having my green juices every day, they give me vitality and make me feel energetic all day, doing an hour of meditation every morning that helps me calm and balance my mind and my body, and now I'm incorporating exercise together with my children and getting them a little involved so they live a life that makes them feel better. There are many things I still have to put the pencil to, so to speak, I have to structure my finances very well since I am the financial provider of my family and on my own I must be my best effort to improve the quality of life of my family. Being in a country like Venezuela you probably hear the news and know, and here I live through unusual economic processes and the economy wobbles very fast.. I want to continue now with carrying out everything I set down in my book of life and I'm still trying to do the second part of this workshop, but I still have to sort out the financial side since for us in this country 300 $ can be a lot of money, in my case it's easily 2 months of work and now that I'm the only provider for my family I have to be very careful. To do the first part of my book I borrowed the money and I'm paying it off in instalments.. Now my goal is to do the second part and I will put all my effort into having the support to carry out my life project. Each area we studied was transformative in my life and I'm still working and setting down my ideas in my book. I am Liliana Preciosa Gonzalez, a 52-year-old woman, graduate in Business Administration, mother of two children, a 15-year-old girl and a 21-year-old man, and now separated from my partner and really wanting to be my best version of me.. I trust that I will find the tools to improve and carry out each area of my life..


LILIANA GONZALEZ

Administradora de empresas y emprendiendo en una empresa procesadora de café tostado.

Mérida, Venezuela

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Written 27 August 2020 From our original stories site Translated from Spanish by Mindvalley

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