Now in my new process, I am a different man
Ahora en mi nuevo proceso, soy un hombre distinto
After a difficult divorce at 38, Carber used Mindvalley programs to understand his life's purpose and transform himself. He improved emotionally and physically, losing 9 kilos while learning to embrace his feelings and focus on being a better father to his two children.
When I did this program I had a clear purpose of becoming a new man, a hard process I didn't expect in my life, like the divorce and two children, made me reach the depth of a change I needed to understand, of why my life after 38 years had ended up there, and after that getting out and finding myself in nothingness.
This program along with others helped me and gave me foundations, as well as paths to understand each purpose of the different experiences a man must have, as well as finding answers to each of those experiences that were arising in my mind and in my body, this process of acceptance, experience and emotionality made me understand and comprehend the why of everything I lived through.
Now in my new process, I am a different man and I consider that I still have a lot to learn, my biggest focus is my children, their growth and starting from this program for their growth, they are my motivation to achieve all the visions I have developed in this program, the best of all is that every day I know I am evolving, I have learned not to live for instant moments, but to know how to wait for the reward, as well as understanding that time has a purpose and I must know how to live it as my growth continues, that in the next year and in the ones to come, every day I will be more grateful for this program.
It allowed me to improve my emotions, to know how to feel, to understand my life more, to accept myself, to love myself more, to want to share more with my children and fill them with love, in this change in the first 6 months I also improved my physical appearance, I went from 89 kilos to 80 kilos and every day I feel more motivated to reach a more ideal weight.
I am grateful for each of these steps I am taking and every time I finish a lesson, I work through it and write it down, it gives more meaning to the life I am projecting, and I know that nothing is impossible, I know that life will keep allowing me to create spaces to share these learning experiences with others, to fulfil my goals, develop them and that life allows us to connect so I can thank you for all of this.
Al realizar este programa tenia un propósito definido de ser un nuevo hombre, un proceso fuerte que no esperaba en mi vida como el divorcio y dos hijos me hizo llegar a la profundidad de un cambio que necesitaba comprender, de porque mi vida luego de 38 años había llegado alli, y luego de eso salir y encontrarme en la nada.
Este programa junto a otros me ayudo y dio bases, ademas de caminos para entender cada propósito de las diferentes vivencias que el hombre debe tener, ademas de encontrar respuestas a cada una de esas vivencias que estaba suscitando en mi mente y en mi cuerpo, es proceso de aceptación, vivencia y emocionalidad me hizo entender y comprender el porque de todo lo vivido.
Ahora en mi nuevo proceso, soy un hombre distinto y que considero que todavía me falta mucho por aprender, mi mayor enfoque son mis hijos, su crecimiento y partir de este programa para su crecimiento, ellos son mi motivación de lograr todas las visiones que he desarrollado en este programa, lo mejor de todo es que cada día se que estoy evolucionando, he aprendido a no vivir de momentos instantáneos, sino saber esperar la recompensa, ademas de entender que el tiempo tiene un propósito y debo saber vivirlo a medida que mi crecimiento se mantiene, que en el siguiente año y en los que estan por venir, cada día agradeceré mas por este programa.
Me permiti mejorar mis emociones, a saber sentir, a comprender mas mi vida, a aceptarme, a quererme mas, a querer compartir mas con mis hijos y llenarlos de amor, en este cambio en los 6 primeros meses tambien mejore mi aspecto físico, pase de 89 kilos a 80 kilos y cada día me siento con mas animo de llegar a un peso mas ideal.
Agradezco cada uno de estos pasos que estoy dando y cada vez que termino una lección, la desarrollo y la escribo, me da mas sentido a la vida que estoy proyectando, y se que no hay nada imposible, se que la vida me va a seguir permitiendo generar espacios para compartir con otros estas experiencias de aprendizajes, cumplir mis metas, desarrollarlas y que la vida nos permita conectarnos para agradecerles por todo esto.
Carber Caicedo Caro
Mechanical Engineering Technologist
San Antonio del Tachira, Venezuela
Written 30 October 2019 From our original stories site Translated from Spanish by Mindvalley
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